layer/iterate: do DNS 0x20 unless in safe mode

DNS 0x20 https://tools.ietf.org/html/draft-vixie-dnsext-dns0x20-00
is a way to add more randomness into queries to make spoofing tougher
this implementation provides up to 32 bits of randomness to QNAME,
which is more than enough for most names (it is possible to add a
maximum of 1 bit of entropy per alphanumeric character, so it's not very
efficient with shorter names)

fixes #27