the stats module keeps track of frequent iterative queries using
probabilistic sampling. the list includes subrequests.
it is useful for tracking over time, prefetching and anomaly reporting

enumerated metrics are always present (set to 0 if not used), this fixes
missing values when not measuring and provides a faster access to common
data

this can coalesce sends/writes in future versions of libuv

this fixes an issue with libuv sometimes crashing with mismatching number
of descriptors with REUSEPORT

Tests wrapped

See merge request !15