this fixes resolution of multi-level queries, when a side query
encounters a nameserver that requires address resolution

as glue (or any additionals) are NOT cached

- cache is now fully optional, resolution works without cache as well
- proper mempool per each request, not mixed
- zone cut resolution doesn't need any per-context memory
- now it's possible to do qname minimization
- rplan keeps tabs on resolved queries
- added documentation etc.

- correct processing of NS records in the authoritative answers

this is a little hacked, I'd like to do list of nested
transactions later and short-lived read transactions.