this change introduces new API for cache backends,
that is a subset of knot_db_api_t from libknot
with several cache-specific operations

major changes are:
* merged 'cachectl' module into 'cache' as it is
  99% default-on and it simplifies things
* not transaction oriented, transactions may be
  reused and cached for higher performance
* scatter/gather API, this is important for
  latency and performance of non-local backends
  like Redis
* faster and reliable cache clearing
* cache-specific operations (prefix scan, ...) in
  the API not hacked in
* simpler code for both backends and caller

amalgamated build concatenates all files into a single .c file to
allow compiler see all symbols and produce possibly smaller code.
for binary distributions this is what you want, as it's faster but
may consume more memory during compilation.
it however cannot do incremental builds.

fixes killing the server with SIGKILL causing abortiong,
added SIGTERM handler and ignored retcode from uv_run()

this is a workaround, as we don't support `make uninstall` yet